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Elderly Care at Home: How to Care for the Elderly

Old age may be a fact of life, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy, either for you or for your loved ones. Sooner or later most of us will face the prospect of looking after an elderly parent or relative, so it makes good sense to consider how this will impact upon your lives.

Plan Ahead

It’s a good idea to have a serious conversation with your loved one before they start to show physical and mental symptoms of old age. You need to know their thoughts and opinions on elderly care so that you can conform to their wishes should the need arise.

Perhaps your elderly mother dreads the thought of going into a care home, for example, or your father has a strong desire to stay in his own home. It’s only through frank discussions that you can all be clear on the best way forward to ensure the wellbeing as well as physical health and safty of your loved one.

Tip: A sensible idea is to discuss the subject of Power of Attorney, so that if the the time comes and your elderly loved one becomes unable to handle his or her own financial affairs, you are able to step in and take care of that side of things.

Make the Home Safe

Effective care for the elderly is all about being prepared in advance and pre-empting any serious issues before they happen. Older people are more prone to slips, trips and falls, so check through the home to make sure that hazards are removed. The bathroom can be a particularly dangerous place, so consider fitting grab rails to baths and showers, and perhaps hand rails around the toilet.

Stairs can also be a problem, so installing a stair lift might be a good option. It’s also a good idea to install special smoke alarms which feature strobe lighting, as many elderly people struggle with hearing loss. Arthritic hands might require special kitchen equipment to make cooking easier. Take time to look out for potential problems and see whether you can come up with solutions.

Independence and Dignity

Older people are usually used to independent living, and it can be difficult for them to come to terms with any loss of that independence. You have to accept that this stage of life is difficult for your loved one, and that it may take time for them to accept that their needs are changing.

It’s natural for older people to revisit their younger days, and so even if you’ve heard the anecdotes many times before, it’s often a good idea to let them talk. Help them to enjoy their memories, perhaps by going through old photograph albums or arranging for them to see old films that they love. Acknowledging their achievements and helping them to relive the past is a valuable exercise which brings them great enjoyment.

Loneliness can be a curse in old age, so don’t let your loved one become a recluse. Encourage them to go out to social events – your local authority will have details of activities for older people. If they refuse, then take them out shopping or for a drive around familiar places to keep them interested in life. Encourage them to continue with favourite hobbies or to develop new ones. Staying physically and mentally active is very important.

Personal care can be a tricky subject, particularly between parents and children. The parents are used to being the caregivers, and it can be hard for them to accept any form of role reversal. If your loved one needs one-to-one assistance, then it is often easier all round to arrange elderly care at home from a live-in care provider such as Elder.

Mikis’ care story

In this short video, Nick and Maro explain their reasons for choosing Elder live-in care. They discuss how live-in care has allowed Nick’s father Mikis to stay independent in his own home while making a new friend at the same time.

Home or Care Home?

With so much bad press about care homes, many elderly people and their relatives are reluctant to go down that route. As an alternative, you might like to consider an elderly care at home option. Social services will do an assessment and produce a care plan to give you an outline of the type of care which is appropriate. However, you should bear in mind that local authority home care services are under huge pressure and caregivers are only usually able to do the bare minimum.

An increasingly popular option is private care, which is tailored exactly around your loved one’s needs. From assistance with dressing, bathing and toileting to help with cooking, shopping and even social events, a caregiver can provide as much, or as little, help as is required.

If your loved one’s health or mental faculties deteriorate, then private live-in care is an ideal solution. A dedicated live-in carer provides 24/7 care for absolute peace of mind. Should your loved one need help during the night, then you have the comfort of knowing that they will be taken care of.

Many in-home care workers are trained in Alzheimer’s care and dementia care, a skill that requires a lot of patience and understanding, and one that relatives might struggle with. A key advantage of live-in care is that your loved one is surrounded by familiar things in an environment that they are accustomed to, and this can be a great comfort. It also means that any pets can remain too, which can provide a lot of happiness as well of health benefits for older people.

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