Palliative care at home

Palliative care is specialist support, care and treatment needed by someone who is living with what’s often called a life-limiting condition or illness.

Quick overview

Palliative care at home may be required if your loved one is living with a life-limiting illness or condition.

It helps to ensure people can continue to be supported and comforted in their own home.

This type of care is provided by a varied and dedicated team of professionals.

There may come a time when you or a loved one needs the support of a home carer who can help to maintain their quality of life as they face a life-limiting illness or condition.

This is called palliative care. It’s sometimes referred to as ‘end-of-life’ care too however the two are slightly different. Palliative care services can be provided for years – while end-of-life care is usually only provided for the final months or weeks of a person’s life. However, both are very much about obeying the wishes of the individual, ensuring their physical comfort, and offering emotional support to both them and their loved ones.

What is palliative care?

Palliative care is a type of care that focuses on improving a person’s quality of life while they’re facing a terminal illness or condition. It includes physical care – such as ensuring a person is comfortable and clean, emotional care – such as providing companionship and empathy, and spiritual care – such as helping people explore their beliefs or find purpose.

This type of care should start as soon as it’s required , some form of palliative care often begins directly after a terminal diagnosis, and it can last for up to 12 months or more.

There are many different dimensions to palliative care, and it’s about being able to provide support in each area – for this reason people receiving this type of care will often receive support from a number of people and caregivers.

For example palliative care may include the below –

Aims of palliative care

The main aim of any sort of care at this stage is to maintain or enhance quality of life, ensuring your or a loved one stays as well and active as possible, for as long as possible. A medical or nursing team will be primarily supporting things such as medication and treatment but a live-in carer can provide both practical support with daily living, companionship and become an ally for the family at what can be an extremely difficult time. 

"We were desperate to get my terminally mother home from hospital but it was the week before a 4 day public holiday weekend and during a pandemic . No local care was available either NHS or private . Nonetheless Elder came up with a series of excellent live in carers who were both kind and diligent . The whole process of arranging care was felt simple and the admin team were all very helpful . I would certainly recommend Elder to others."

How Elder can help

Live-in care can be a form of palliative care and provides essential social, companionship and housekeeping support both for the person needing care and their family. It can help to keep people at home as they near the end of their life – as opposed to having to move to a hospital, care home or hospice if they don’t want or need to. 

At Elder our matching process ensures the carer you choose is the right person for the job, taking into account specific skills and experience, as well as their personality, hobbies and interests. This ensures they can provide personalised care and help maintain as much normality as possible.

Different conditions require different aspects of care – such as COPD, dementia and cancer.

Live-in carers are experienced in caring for many conditions, but in terms of palliative care the support required will vary. For those living with dementia, care and support may be needed on a longer-term basis.

Live in care for people living with COPD may be required more so during periods of deterioration, after flare ups, or following an admission to hospital. 

For older adults with cancer who might experience rapid decline – live-in care can take many of the practical caring responsibilities off of family members, allowing them to concentrate on spending quality time with their loved one.  


"From the first contact Elder provided first class support. Our mother was 96 and was suffering from advanced Alzheimer's. She had lived with us for a period of time, but her condition worsened and our domestic situation did not allow us to continue and we placed her in a care home until we could convert our house.

We had by now managed to create living accommodation suitable for her needs. The garage was converted into a 2 bedroom apartment with a disabled bathroom and a small kitchen and a lounge. Elder provided us with a link to help us select our carer. We chose Yemi a lady from London who came to care for mum. Yemi had to go away for 10 days and Elder provided Esther to step in whilst Yemi was away. The standard of care and love they both gave to mum and the family could not have been better.

Yemi was there when mum died peacefully and stayed to support the family for 2 days after mums death. We have 2 closing remarks to make. Firstly there is nothing better than care at home. You can look back when your loved one passes knowing that the best care was provided by you to your loved one and it will help you deal better with the grief Secondly I can not rate Elder and their carers highly enough and would recommend them to any one who might be in our position."

What can a live-in palliative carer do? 

A live-in carer can become an essential member of your palliative care team – helping with symptom management and improving quality of life. 

The professional carers in Elder’s network can support in a wide range of areas, such as –

  • Personal care, e.g washing, dressing, oral care and grooming
  • Continence care e.g getting to the toilet, helping with pads and continence aids
  • Providing regular updates and peace of mind to friends and family who can’t be there 24/7 
  • Providing periods of respite care so family caregivers can take much needed breaks
  • Supporting with complementary therapies such as meditation or aromatherapy
  • Helping maintain a sense of normality by following a familiar daily routine 
  • Offering support to family members
  • Providing practical care and support around the house e.g cleaning, laundry, greeting and managing visitors, and taking care of pets 
  • Planning and cooking meals
  • Ensuring safe mobility in and around the home
  • Providing constant companionship 
  • Encouraging any medically recommended exercises or techniques for managing things like shortness of breath or muscle stiffness
  • Providing medication reminders, helping a person take the right medication at the right time

What can’t a live-in palliative carer do?

When you source a live-in carer through Elder, they’ll learn about your needs through the information you’ve shared in your online care appraisal.  However, independent care professionals on the Elder platform will not be expected to provide the following support which falls under nursing care tasks or requires a high level of specialist training to carry out safely.

  • Administering pain relief or medication
  • STOMA care
  • PEG care
  • Wound care
  • Ventilation, Oxygen Support, BiPAP or CPAP Support
  • Unstable Epilepsy
  • Controlled Drug Administration
  • Glucose readings via finger pricks
  • Injections
  • Pessaries, Enemas, Suppositories
  • Caring for someone in active addiction

When can you access palliative care?

Palliative care can actually be organised at any stage of your loved one’s illness and arranging it doesn’t mean that they’re likely to pass any time soon. In fact, many people receive personalised end of life care for years.

As part of the planning process – it’s important to consider advance care planning. Advance care planning is a specific type of end-of-life planning. Whilst a person is still able to communicate their wishes they can talk to their medical team about their condition and their preferences for care when it progresses. 

Is palliative care free?

It can be depending on certain circumstances.

For example, if you’re nearing the end of your life you may wish to receive hospice care. You can either receive care and support as an outpatient, at home, or move in as a resident. 

Hospice care is free, and connects you to things like occupational therapy, complementary therapies, financial information, psychological help, and bereavement support. You’ll usually need to be referred by a GP or nurse. 

If you want additional support at home – for example with daily living and household tasks you’ll likely need to cover some costs yourself for full-time care. This is unless you’re eligible for NHS Continuing Health Care funding – which covers every penny of your health and social care costs. For those with an advanced illness and who are nearing the end of their life, there is a fast track service for getting this funding.

However it’s worth noting that this funding is is reserved for those with intensive health and care needs, meaning those who qualify often require some form of specialist or nurse-led care, for example PEG feeding or stoma support. This falls outside of what an introductory service like Elder can provide.

Making your home suitable for care may have additional costs too, for example installing an accessible shower, ramps, grab rails, or stairlift. A home adaptation grant can help minimise these costs, so it’s always worth submitting an application if your needs are likely to change. 

Find out more about funding here.

End-of-life care

End-of-life care and palliative care are terms often used interchangeably, but they do have some differences.

This care involves support, care and treatment for someone near to the end of their life and is a vital aspect of palliative care.

In general, this type of care is provided for those who are believed to have a year or less left to live but, in some cases, someone will actually receive it for a very short period as timeframes are often difficult to predict.

If you or your loved one needs end-of-life care, you can be assured that the objective is to make them as comfortable as they can possibly be. It can take various forms such as those mentioned earlier.

It may also often involve talking to you and your loved one about what to expect as their life draws to a close and should ensure that all of your wishes and needs, and those of your loved one, are fully adhered to.

It may also include some practical help such as assistance with making a will or accessing financial support.Where to find palliative care

Common misconceptions about palliative care

There are many misconceptions that surround this type of care. To ensure that you have the facts that you need, here are a few of the most common – along with the truth behind the myth.

You can only receive palliative care in a hospice or care home

This is certainly not the case, as it can be provided in a range of different settings, the most popular alternative to a residential care facility is care at home. A live-in carer helps with this. 

Palliative care is only available once you have stopped having your condition treated

Having palliative care doesn’t necessarily that the medical professionals will stop treatment, especially if treatment is helping slow progression or reduce pain. Palliative care is often provided alongside medical treatments such as radiotherapy or chemotherapy.

Palliative care is only suitable if your relative is nearing the end of their life

Not true: it can be accessed at any stage of an illness and can continue for long periods of time.

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