How do I find the most suitable respite care near me?

What is respite care? 

Respite care is a temporary form of care that allows carers to take a break. Allowing someone else to take over care duties for a short period of time – whether that be a few hours, a few days or a few weeks can be beneficial for everyone. No matter which type you choose,  Respite services give regular carers time away to rest and unwind and give those receiving care an opportunity to spend time with new people and experience new things.

What do I need to consider when arranging respite care?

The types of respite care

There is a surprisingly wide range of respite options available in the UK. Often, people assume the best course of action is to move into a residential home for a period of temporary care, but there are other respite care options to consider too – 

Home care – This involves getting a professional carer to provide support in your or your loved one’s own home. This can be through regular domiciliary care visits or a short period of live-in care. 

Intermediate care – If you need ongoing support after leaving the hospital, the NHS may offer up to 6 weeks of care for free.

Friends and family – If you’re a primary carer for a loved one, other members of the family or close friends may be able to take over to give you a break from time to time. 

Day care centres  – day centres provide elderly people with both practical support and the opportunity to connect with others. They often arrange activities like crafts, quizzes and exercise classes, and can provide short breaks for carers throughout the week. 

Befriending services – for people who just need some company, befriending services can offer anything from a weekly phone call to regular home visits. 

Your budget for respite care 

As well as deciding on the most suitable type of respite care, it’s important to consider early on how much care you’ll need, and how much this is likely to cost. This is doubly important if you’re planning to use your time away from caring to go on holiday, as you’ll need to factor in care costs on top of the cost of the holiday.  

Some respite care services come with a higher price tag depending on where you live. For example, residential care is generally cheaper in the North of England, while homes in London and the South East may come at a premium. 

If you’re caring for a loved one yourself, there are some charities and trusts in the UK that help people like you with the cost of respite care or provide free services for people with low-level care needs. 

The Carers Trust, a charity supporting unpaid carers across the UK, may offer a grant towards your respite care costs. You’ll need to contact your local Carers Trust to find out if you’re likely to be eligible, and how to apply. 

You can also use Turn2us‘ grant search tool on their website. The national financial support charity has brought together details of over 3000 funds from across the UK. 

The Victoria Convalescent Trust (VCT) provides both full and partial grants to fund short-term breaks for people living in England and Wales who need respite care. You’ll need a health or social professional to apply on your behalf and how much you receive, if you meet the eligibility criteria, will depend on your individual circumstances and care needs. 

And, if you’re in Scotland, it’s worth taking a look at Shared Care. The charity provides lots of resources and support to family carers, and may be able to connect you to a charity or grant scheme to help you take a break from care. 

You or your loved one may also be eligible for support from your local council or the NHS. to help cover the costs of respite care.

If your loved one is fairly self-sufficient and only really needs some companionship, or an occasional hand with the shopping or getting out and about, a befriending service may be suitable while you’re away.  Befriending services are delivered by local volunteers to help older or vulnerable people stay connected to the outside world and make new friends. Befrienders are unable to provide care.

Again, where you live will be a factor in whether there are suitable befriending services in your area. Most free programmes are run by local charities. If demand is high there may be limited availability or a long waiting list.