Private live-in elderly care
Private live-in elderly care
Elder helps you find a trusted self-employed carer. They live with the elderly and provide them with personalised support – so they spend each day in their own way, in the comfort of home.
Elder helps you find a trusted self-employed carer. They live with the elderly and provide them with personalised support – so they spend each day in their own way, in the comfort of home.
Used by 5,000+ families across the UK
24/7 peace of mind
One-to-one support from a trusted carer.
Keep your routine
Care is shaped around their lifestyle.
Choose your carer
Pick your favourite from personalised matches.
Experts on hand
Support teams available 7 days a week.
24/7 peace of mind
One-to-one support from a trusted carer.
Keep your routine
Care is shaped around their lifestyle.
Choose your carer
Pick your favourite from personalised matches.
Experts on hand
Support teams available 7 days a week.
Why find your private carer with Elder?
Choose from trusted carers
Finding a private carer you can trust can be a complex and time consuming process. Elder makes this easier – all the self-employed carers on our platform have a clean DBS/PVG, provide verifiable references, and have feedback from other families visible on their profiles.
One account for everything
MyElder is the only platform you need to arrange and manage care. Easily keep health details up to date, review and communicate with suitable carers, and request and edit care with ease. You can also invite family members to the account to keep everyone in the loop.
Get respite cover, covered
Unless you have family who can cover your primary carer’s breaks, you’ll likely need to find a respite carer in addition to your main carer. Elder can help – connecting you to self-employed carers available for short-term placements, and laying the groundwork for a smooth transition.
A friendly face and a safe pair of hands
- Less than 10% of applicants pass our screening process
- Carers must provide professional and verifiable references
- Every carer must have a clean, valid DBS or PVG
- Carers undergo character and judgement assessments
Find your ideal carer
We have connected over 5,000 families and carers across the UK. Search for yours today.
Straightforward pricing
Live-in Care
- No joining fee
- Up to 2 wake-ups per night
- Trial period
- No lengthy contracts
- No seasonal charges
Short-term Care
- No joining fee
- Up to 2 wake-ups per night
- No surcharge on weekends
- No surcharge on bank holidays
Looking for dementia live-in care?
85% of us would want to stay in our own home if diagnosed with dementia. Elder makes this possible.
- We've helped thousands of families living with dementia
- We'll only match you to carers with dementia care experience
- We're part of Alzheimer's Society's Dementia Friends' initiative
The benefits of live-in care with Elder
Protect your way of life
Suitable for individuals or couples
For less than you may think
How it works
We’ve built a platform that makes it easier for families and self-employed carers to find each other, build ongoing relationships, and access dedicated support when they need it.
Share your care request
Tell us your care requirements using our simple request form. This includes the type of care you’re looking for, any specialist care or skills you need, and what daily life looks like.
Select your carer
You’ll start receiving profiles of carers you’ve been matched with in 24 hours. You can chat online to carers you’d like to know better, or arrange a phone or video call, before choosing who you like best.
Prepare for care
You can use your online MyElder account to communicate with your chosen carer and the Elder support team, manage your care schedule, and set up secure payment.
Dulcie and Colin's care story
Dulcie is 102-years-old and lives with her son Colin, his wife Mary, and her Carer Sarah. She has dementia and has had full-time live-in care for over two years.
We talk to the family about the challenges of finding the right care solution for a fiercely independent woman – and how the positive benefits of live-in care with Sarah has transformed all of their lives.
An award-winning live-in care company connecting families to independent carers.
Every care story is personal – ours is no different. Pete, our founder, was inspired to help families like yours after arranging care for his Gran, Frances. Fast forward, and we’ve enabled 10 million+ hours of live-in care, and connecting carers to thousands of older people so that they can continue to live their own lives, in their own homes, while getting the one-to-one care they need.
Who we are
Elder are leaders in live-in care – enabling over 13 million hours of care in 123 of 124 postcode areas since 2016. Bringing together smart technology, clinical expertise and personalised support we’re delivering a better care experience for older people, their families, and their carers.
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FAQ's
Care can be confusing, and sometimes difficult to talk
about. We’ve answered some common questions below.
As an introductory provider, we are unable to provide training to the self-employed carers on our platform. However, through our carer loyalty programme, carers who actively find work through our platform have access to a third-party online learning platform, where they can enhance their skills.
We match based on the skills and experience you tell us you need, for example, if your loved one has dementia, we’ll only match you to self-employed carers with experience of looking after someone with the condition.
Each carer with access to our platform must undertake a full background check, and provide at least 2 professional and verifiable references of their work history that we can verify.
We’ll always send you an introductory video of each carer you’re matched with – where they’ll tell you about their background, what they enjoy about being a carer, and their hobbies and interests.
Once you’ve chosen your carer, we’re happy to set up a virtual meeting too, such as a Zoom call so that you can get to know them better before they arrive.
We have a large nationwide network of 6000+ independent care professionals, and have connected families to carers in 123 of 124 postcode areas in Great Britain. This means we can usually get care in place within 24 to 48 hours if your needs are urgent.
Yes, many of our customers use funding from their local authority to cover all or part of their live-in care costs. Often customers choose to receive their funding as a direct payment, so that they’re free to choose their own the carer provider, rather than the council picking one for them.
If you’ve not started the process of applying for local authority funding, we have mapped out the full process here.
If you or a loved one is living with an on-going health condition, it’s worth applying for NHS Continuing Healthcare too. If you meet the criteria, this form of funding will cover every penny of your care costs.
Not at all. We offer short-term live-in care too.
We understand that, if you’re caring for a loved one yourself, it’s important to feel you can take a break without worry. If your regular care arrangement falls through unexpectedly, it’s reassuring to have somewhere to turn to for cover. And, if you or a loved one is returning home from hospital, planning specialist, short term support can aid a safer and more comfortable recovery.
Elder can arrange short-term care for a few days to a few weeks, starting from £680. We offer discounted rates for multiple bookings, and we’ll always try to connect you to the same carer – so that you’re supported by someone familiar.
If you do decide on-going live-in care is best for your situation, your first week will be what we call a ‘trial’ week. This is an opportunity for everyone to get to know each other. If it doesn’t feel right, you’re able to cancel straightaway. However, we’re not going to lock you into any long contracts when it does work out either. If your care needs change, you’re able to end your care arrangement with just two weeks’ notice.
Yes. Every carer we work with must have a good level of written and spoken English.
If you’d prefer a carer who also speaks a second language, simply let us know.
We understand the importance of continuity for those living with conditions such as dementia. However, the carers we work with are only human, and do require time off. You can expect your family’s primary carer to be with you for around four weeks at a time, usually taking one or two weeks off. During this period, if you need another independent carer to step in simply let us know and we’ll start identifying suitable respite carers for you to choose from.
The carer will need their own bedroom to use for sleeping and as a place to relax when they are taking a break. It is best to provide a television and internet access for them since they will be spending so much time with you. The carer will prepare meals and probably eat with you, so separate dining facilities will not be needed. We’d recommend budgeting £40 per week for the carer’s food. However, if you’d like us to arrange it, we can add it to your weekly payments.
If you or your loved one likes to get out and about and they are well enough to do so, it can be a good idea to supply a car that the live-in carer can use. Having a car to use can also help with shopping trips and transport to appointments or daycare sessions, especially if you’re in an isolated area. Please bear in mind, for carers with cars we do ask for an additional fee. This is passed directly on to the carer.
There are various pieces of nursing equipment you can buy that can make care at home easier.
If you or a loved one spends a lot of time in bed or needs to change position at regular intervals, they may benefit from a hospital bed. In addition to raising and lowering to the optimum position for the carer to work, it will help to get into a comfortable position and sit upright for meals. Hospital beds also have side rails to use if the person is at risk of falling. Extra equipment such as pressure relief mattresses will also minimise the development of pressure sores.
Usually, the district nursing service will advise on the best specialist equipment for providing care at home. They should also be able to organise the supply of these items from NHS stores, although some items may have to be purchased privately.
If you or your family member has mobility issues, it’s worth looking into the various aids that can help – from walking aids such as Zimmer frames to the installation of a stair lift. If unable to stand, you will need a hoist so that the live-in carer can reposition when necessary. Equipment such as a mobile commode is useful for toilet and personal hygiene tasks such as showering.
A live-in carer provides companionship for you or a loved one when family members are unable to be around. They will be chosen on the basis of shared interests and hobbies, as well as for the ability to meet healthcare needs.
In a typical day the carer might play games or share activities such as cooking or gardening. They can also help with getting dressed, and personal hygiene. Put simply, the carer will try to support to ensure you or a loved on can carry on doing the things you enjoy, while minimising risk.
If care is for a loved one, You will be notified of illness or a fall, or anything else that you need to be aware of and the carer will also contact health care professionals such as nurses or doctors if they need to.
No, we can arrange for temporary care and short-term care too. If you usually care for your loved one, but are going on holiday, or just need a bit of time off, live-in care is the perfect cover. Our short-term care service can be arranged for as little as three days at a time.
The carer is on-hand to help. With their usual shift hours around 10-12 hours per day. So you can have the peace of mind of knowing that your loved one is safe and cared for. To provide additional peace of mind, there are many aids available to alert the carer to potential problems.
If your loved one is prone to falls and needs someone with them, a pressure mat placed beside the bed can trigger an alarm that lets the live-in carer know if the person gets up in the night. Similarly, alarms can be installed close to doors so that your loved one cannot wander off without their carer realising.
An award-winning live-in care company connecting families to independent carers.
Every care story is personal – ours is no different. Pete, our founder, was inspired to help families like yours after arranging care for his Gran, Frances. Fast forward, and we’ve delivered 10 million+ hours of live-in care, and enabled thousands of older people to live their own lives, in their own homes, while getting the one-to-one care they need.