5-minute read | 13/01/2026

Editorial Contributor

Clinically reviewed by
Bianca Wardle
For many families, the idea of a loved one moving into a care home can feel overwhelming. While residential care is the right choice for some, it is not the only option available. In fact, many older people prefer to remain in their own homes, surrounded by familiar routines, memories, and community.
This guide explores the main alternatives to care homes in the UK, answering common questions families ask, explaining how each option works, who it may suit, and what to consider when making a decision.
Families often explore alternatives to care homes because they want:
According to Age UK and the NHS, many older people achieve better wellbeing outcomes when they can remain at home with the right level of support.

Live-in care is often the closest alternative to a care home, providing continuous, one-to-one support while allowing an older person to remain in their own home.
Live-in care involves a trained carer moving into the home to provide round-the-clock support. This option allows an older person to stay in familiar surroundings while receiving consistent, personalised care.
Live-in care can be a good alternative to a care home for people who:
Many families choose live-in care as a long-term alternative to residential care, particularly when needs are complex or likely to increase.
Visiting home care is best suited to people who need help at specific times of day but remain largely independent.
Visiting home care involves carers visiting at set times during the day to help with specific tasks, such as personal care, meals, or household chores.
This option may work well for older people who:
Visiting care can be a flexible alternative in the early stages of care needs.

This option sits between independent living and residential care, offering reassurance without full-time supervision.
Supported living and extra care housing combine independent accommodation with access to on-site care and support services.
This option suits people who want independence but reassurance that help is available if needed.
Some families choose to provide care themselves, supported by professional carers or respite services.
This may involve:
While this option can work well, it is important to recognise the emotional and physical demands placed on family carers.
When deciding between care options, consider:
The NHS advises that care decisions should be reviewed regularly, as needs can change over time.
There is no single best alternative for everyone. For many older people, live-in care offers the closest level of support to a care home while allowing them to remain at home. Others may prefer visiting home care or supported living, depending on their needs and independence.
Live-in care can be comparable in cost, if not cheaper than residential care, particularly for couples or when higher levels of support are required. Costs vary depending on care needs, location, and funding options. For more information, read our guide to live-in care costs.
Yes. Many people living with dementia can remain at home with the right level of support. Live-in care and specialist dementia care can provide routine, familiarity, and one-to-one support, which may reduce distress and confusion.
A care home may be appropriate if someone needs continuous medical supervision, specialist nursing care, or if home-based care is no longer safe or suitable. Care needs should be reviewed regularly with healthcare professionals.
Choosing care depends on medical needs, personal preferences, home environment, and budget. Speaking with care specialists and using trusted guidance, such as Elder’s advice hub, can help families make informed decisions.
Dulcie is 100-years-old and lives with her son Colin, his wife Mary, and her Carer Sarah. She has dementia and has had full-time live-in care for six months.
We talk to the family about the challenges of finding the right care solution for a fiercely independent woman – and how the positive benefits of live-in care with Sarah has transformed all of their lives.
Living with Live in Care: Dulcie's Story
Elder specialises in live-in care at home, helping older people remain independent while receiving the support they need.
With carefully matched carers and ongoing support, Elder offers a personalised alternative to care homes, including specialist dementia care and complex care support.
If you’re exploring alternatives to care homes and would like guidance tailored to your situation, visit Elder’s advice hub, learn more about live-in care, or speak to our care specialists for personalised advice.