How does live-in care work?

Live-in care works by having a dedicated carer move into your loved one’s home to provide one-to-one support, day and night. Live-in carers can assist with daily tasks, personal care and companionship, helping your loved one stay safe, comfortable and independent in their own home.

Which tasks can live-in carers support with?

Live-in carers can support with: Household tasks (cleaning, laundry, cooking, errands) Personal care (washing, dressing, toileting, mobility support) Companionship and social support Medication reminders Night-time support Looking after pets and helping with outings. Live-in carers can’t support with: Ventilation or oxygen support (e.g. CPAP or BiPAP) Specialist drug administration Stoma care PEG care Wound care To learn more, read our guide on what live-in carers can do.

How do I search for and choose a live-in carer?

It’s simple to get started. Once you’ve created your MyElder account, you’ll be asked to complete some quick clinical suitability questions and submit a ‘Care Request’. This usually takes less than 10 minutes and helps us understand your care needs to match you with the right live-in carer. You’ll be asked about: The name, age, and location of the person needing care Any medical conditions Mobility levels Hobbies and interests Discrimination risk. Using your answers, our ElderMatch technology shortlists suitable self-employed carers. You’ll typically receive profiles within 24 hours. Each carer profile includes details about their experience, background, and feedback from other families. You’ll also see a short introductory video to help you get a feel for their personality and approach. You can: Invite other family members or decision-makers to your MyElder account Chat directly with carers through the platform Arrange phone or video calls to get to know them better. Not sure what to ask a potential carer? We’ve put together some helpful questions. Once you’ve found the right carer for your needs, simply click ‘Accept’ on their profile to move forward. For more advice, read our guide to how to choose a live-in carer.

How are live-in carers screened before joining the Elder platform?

We know how important it is to feel confident in the carer supporting your loved one. That’s why every self-employed carer on the Elder platform must pass a suitability screening before joining. This includes: Professional care experience – Carers must have previous experience in a professional setting, such as a private home, care home, or healthcare facility. We don’t accept personal or family-only care experience. Strong communication skills – A good level of written and spoken English is essential. Proof of identity – Carers must provide valid photo ID and have the Right to Work in the UK. Background checks – All carers must be eligible to pass an enhanced DBS check (England and Wales). References – Carers are required to supply at least two verifiable professional references. Screening assessments – Each carer completes a series of situational judgment and character assessments to help us understand their approach to care.

Can I have more than one carer?

Yes, you can arrange care with more than one self-employed carer through Elder. For example, if you need separate carers for daytime and nighttime support, simply submit a separate Care Request for each arrangement. Be sure to clearly outline the specific needs each carer will be supporting with, so we can match you with the most suitable individuals for each role.

How quickly can live-in care be arranged?

Thanks to our nationwide network of self-employed carers, we’re often able to arrange live-in care within 24 hours. In urgent cases, we’ve even matched families with a suitable carer on the same day.

Can I request a male or female live-in carer?

Yes, absolutely. If you or your loved one has a preference for a male or female carer, just let us know when submitting your care request.

Will the live-in carer speak English?

Yes. All self-employed carers on our platform are required to have a good standard of written and spoken English to ensure clear communication and high-quality care. If you’d prefer a carer who also speaks another language, just let us know – we’ll do our best to match you with someone who meets your needs.

Is there anything I need to do to prepare the home for a live-in carer?

Yes. To help the live-in carer settle in and feel comfortable, you’ll need to provide: A private room – Ideally a bedroom that isn’t used by other family members or as a walkthrough. If a bedroom isn’t available, a spare reception room or study can be adapted, as long as it’s a private and quiet space. Access to a bathroom – The carer doesn’t need their own bathroom, but clean, functional facilities are essential. If the bathroom is shared, there should be space for the carer to store personal toiletries. WiFi access – A reliable internet connection helps carers stay in touch with Elder, access care resources, and communicate with family, especially important in rural areas with poor phone signals.

Do I need to provide food for a live-in carer?

Live-in carers usually prepare and share meals with the person they’re supporting, so there’s no need for separate dining arrangements. We recommend budgeting around £40 per week to cover the cost of the carer’s food. If you prefer, this can be included in your weekly payments through Elder. Some carers may have specific dietary requirements and may choose to buy their own food instead. We suggest discussing food preferences and arrangements directly with your chosen carer to ensure a setup that works for everyone.

Is live-in care suitable for someone with dementia?

Yes, live-in care can be especially beneficial for individuals living with dementia. Staying in familiar surroundings helps reduce confusion and distress. Carers can provide dedicated support tailored to your loved one’s needs and routines. Read our guide to live-in dementia care for more information.

What if my loved one doesn’t get on with the live-in carer?

If the match isn’t right, we will offer a replacement carer at no extra cost. Simply give us a call and we’ll work quickly to present you with new carer matches, usually within 24 hours.

Can I ask live-in carers questions during the selection process?

Absolutely. You can ask about their motivation, training, past experience, approach to emergencies, and how they build relationships with those they care for.

Live-in care - the better care home alternative

Receive round-the-clock support from an experienced carer in the home you know and love.

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Cost efficient

35% cheaper than alternatives

What are the benefits of live-in care?

Live-in care offers a safe and flexible alternative to residential care, allowing people to receive full-time support in the comfort of their own home. From practical help with everyday tasks to emotional support and companionship, there are many reasons families choose this type of care.

Personalised, one-to-one support

With live-in care, your loved one receives dedicated, round-the-clock support from a single, trusted carer. They provide personalised help with daily routines, companionship, and personal care, all tailored to individual preferences.

Independence and familiar surroundings

Live-in care allows your loved one to stay at home, surrounded by the things, people, and memories they love. For those with dementia, this consistency can reduce confusion and anxiety while supporting confidence and independence.

Peace of mind for families

A live-in carer offers reassurance that your loved one is safe, supported, and never alone. Families can relax knowing professional help is always on hand while independence and choice are respected.

Flexible and cost-effective care

Live-in care can be more affordable than many expect, often costing less than residential care. You only pay for the support you need, and local authority funding may help cover costs. Learn more in our guide to funding your care.

Social life and wellbeing

Staying at home helps your loved one remain active and connected. Carers can accompany them to social events, clubs, or family visits, making it easier to maintain friendships and hobbies.

Better health outcomes

Research shows live-in care can lead to fewer falls, faster recovery, and fewer hospital admissions. Staying at home also means keeping the same GP and healthcare team for consistent, trusted support.

Couples can stay together

Separating elderly couples when one can no longer cope can be painful. Live-in care allows them to stay together as a single carer can ensure the needs of both are taken care of, only assisting where required.

Our care services

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Live-in care

Long-term 24-hour support

A carer lives in the home to provide round-the-clock support
Suitable for people living with conditions like dementia, reduced mobility, etc.
For long-term care needs

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Respite care

Temporary 24-hour support

A carer moves in for a few days to provide round-the-clock support
Suitable to cover for a main caregiver or for a temporary increase in care needs
Minimum duration of 3 days

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Visiting care

Flexible home visits

Book as many hours as you need for help in the comfort of your home
Support with everyday tasks like grooming, walks, cooking, etc.
From as little as 1 hour per week

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Helping you find the right carer

We want you to find a self-employed carer you can trust and get on with. All cares pass a rigorous screening which includes a background check, character and skills assessment, and verifiable professional references. Only 2% of applicants to join Elder are successful. As a result, 9 out of 10 customers are very satisfied with their first carer.

“Patience is a breath of fresh air! She is lively, cheerful and fun and brings joy to my in-laws' home. Nothing is too much trouble. She makes my mother-in-law feel like a princess.”

Louise Elder Customer

“David has been 400% better than I could ever have imagined. I have seen many carers over the years but David is in a break away Premier league. He is attentive, thoughtful, constantly looking to improve the situation.”

David Elder Customer

“[Our carer] never underestimated mum's sharp intellect and desire to hold on to her independence. She and mum chatted about songs mum had always enjoyed, and she helped to create a special playlist for her."

Jane Elder Customer

“My mother has dementia and Maria quickly gained her trust...Maria cooks her delicious meals from scratch and keeps my mother busy with new card games. I have never seen my mother so happy.”

Alice Elder Customer

“She was a very friendly capable caring lady. My husband thought the world of her and has asked me if he can have her care for him the next time I am away which means a lot to me.”

Elizabeth Elder Customer

"Marko has taken the trouble to understand Ken's complicated needs, has become a good friend for Ken and is restoring some fun to Ken's life. For that we cannot thank him enough."

Alan Elder Customer

“Josephine has gone above and beyond. Every Wednesday she cooks a big meal and sets the table for Alison, her son Donald and his wife Annette, which is the highlight of the week and something they all really look forward to.”

Kyla Elder Customer

“Katie has made life easier and better for my gran from the moment she arrived. She has fitted in so well with our wee family and makes my gran feel special.”

Angela Elder Customer

Nina

placeCroydon

badge8 years

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Nina is a lovely family carer. Very friendly, happy. Mum loved her being there

Roseline

placeWalsall

badge16 years

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Dad and all of us were sorry to see her go. We hope she will be back!

Francisca

placeWolverhampton

badge17 years

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Fran cared for mum brilliantly. She was patient, kind and caring with experience of looking after people with advanced dementia. We would happily welcome Fran back.

Kadi

placeMilton Keynes

badge13 years

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Kadi has been caring for my mother-in-law on and off for the past few years. She is an excellent carer - compassionate, kind, sensible, reliable and communicative, with a great sense of humour. We would very much recommend her to other families seeking a carer for their loved one.

Vera

placeCastle Point

badge9 years

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Vera is a great support to Mum. She has a wonderfully cheery disposition and is caring to her core. She has spent time getting to know Mum, what she likes to eat, what makes her happy. We would definitely like Vera to return and look forward to seeing her again soon.

Georgina

placeLeeds

badge13 years

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My mum’s health and self confidence grew markedly during Georgina’s time with us and she lived at home, in the nicest possible surroundings, thanks to many thoughtful touches that Georgina introduced.

Grace

placeHackney

badge36 years

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Grace has cared for my Mum for 4 years. She has done a fantastic job under difficult circumstances and I would have no hesitation in recommending her.

Caroline

placeKirklees

badge18 years

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Caroline has a loving caring nature; is very focused on creating a supportive safe environment for mum; is confident and efficient in her professional approach and a great communicator. We feel very secure in the knowledge that Mum is being very well cared for in her own home.

NATASHA

placeBarking and Dagenham

badge5 years

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Very polite and mother liked here very much. Obviously experienced and she kept in contact with our long term carer, Olu. I believe she left the house clean and tidy and we liked her so we would like her to be involved again

Tracy

placeFylde

badge17 years

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Tracy stepped in at very short notice due to illness and adapted to the role quickly. I was hugely grateful for her help with my Aunt and the week's care went well.

Miriam

placeNorwich

badge8 years

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She really cared and accepted it wouldn’t be easy for someone to have 24/7 care.

Gayle

placeNa h-Eileanan Siar

badge7 years

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Gayle managed to create a sympathetic and kind relationship with my husband who has advanced dementia and can be very tricky. She was great in all ways and I would have her back any day.

Joleen

placePowys

badge19 years

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Found Jolene very knowledgable ,a lovely attitude and helpful a pleasure to work with and very good with Wendy and chris

Colette

placeTower Hamlets

badge11 years

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Only one week in but already I can see that Colette was the right choice for my Mum's care. She knows just what to do, with little to no assistance from us, and I am confident in the quality of care received.

Hope

placeWaltham Forest

badge55 years

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Perfect match for mother Good Understanding of Stoke Very caring and kind

Do

placeSomerset

badge43 years

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As a former nurse and experienced carer, Do quickly got into her stride and was able to immediately gain Dad's confidence and provide first class care.

Stacey

placeStaffordshire Moorlands

badge17 years

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Well what can I say about Stacey? She is the most wonderful person I’ve ever met. She’s helped my parents so much and she’s helped me and my brother and my sister for caring for my parents. She’s got a very strong personality. She does home cooking which my Dad is over the moon with and my mum abs...

Gerald

placeWolverhampton

badge12 years

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Gerald has the carer that we so needed and much more for our dear Father. He is gentle, caring and very patient. He has settled in very well in his role as carer and is a breath of fresh air to our family at such a challenging and sensitive time. We are grateful for the services of Elder for prov...

Dorothy

placeWarwick

badge30 years

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Dorothy was a lovely lady who was very kind and caring towards mum. She had a wealth of knowledge and nothing was too much trouble, we would gladly welcome Dorothy back.

Dorothy

placeLeicester

badge15 years

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Dorothy is highly professional, experienced and has a fantastic attitude.

Nina

placeCroydon

badge8 years

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Nina is a lovely family carer. Very friendly, happy. Mum loved her being there

Roseline

placeWalsall

badge16 years

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Dad and all of us were sorry to see her go. We hope she will be back!

Francisca

placeWolverhampton

badge17 years

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Fran cared for mum brilliantly. She was patient, kind and caring with experience of looking after people with advanced dementia. We would happily welcome Fran back.

Kadi

placeMilton Keynes

badge13 years

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Vera

placeCastle Point

badge9 years

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Georgina

placeLeeds

badge13 years

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Grace

placeHackney

badge36 years

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Grace has cared for my Mum for 4 years. She has done a fantastic job under difficult circumstances and I would have no hesitation in recommending her.

Caroline

placeKirklees

badge18 years

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NATASHA

placeBarking and Dagenham

badge5 years

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Tracy

placeFylde

badge17 years

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Tracy stepped in at very short notice due to illness and adapted to the role quickly. I was hugely grateful for her help with my Aunt and the week's care went well.

Miriam

placeNorwich

badge8 years

starstarstarstarstar

She really cared and accepted it wouldn’t be easy for someone to have 24/7 care.

Gayle

placeNa h-Eileanan Siar

badge7 years

starstarstarstarstar

Gayle managed to create a sympathetic and kind relationship with my husband who has advanced dementia and can be very tricky. She was great in all ways and I would have her back any day.

Joleen

placePowys

badge19 years

starstarstarstarstar

Found Jolene very knowledgable ,a lovely attitude and helpful a pleasure to work with and very good with Wendy and chris

Colette

placeTower Hamlets

badge11 years

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Hope

placeWaltham Forest

badge55 years

starstarstarstarstar

Perfect match for mother Good Understanding of Stoke Very caring and kind

Do

placeSomerset

badge43 years

starstarstarstarstar

As a former nurse and experienced carer, Do quickly got into her stride and was able to immediately gain Dad's confidence and provide first class care.

Stacey

placeStaffordshire Moorlands

badge17 years

starstarstarstarstar

Gerald

placeWolverhampton

badge12 years

starstarstarstarstar

Dorothy

placeWarwick

badge30 years

starstarstarstarstar

Dorothy was a lovely lady who was very kind and caring towards mum. She had a wealth of knowledge and nothing was too much trouble, we would gladly welcome Dorothy back.

Dorothy

placeLeicester

badge15 years

starstarstarstarstar

Dorothy is highly professional, experienced and has a fantastic attitude.

Which tasks can a home carer help with?

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Personal care

e.g. help with washing, toileting, and prompting medication

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Dressing and grooming

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Meal preparation

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Light housekeeping

e.g. vacuuming, keeping surfaces clean and doing laundry

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Running errands

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Companionship

e.g. providing company and encouraging hobbies and interests

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Pet care

e.g. feeding and exercising pets

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Mobility support

e.g. encouraging gentle and suitable exercise

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Light gardening

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Admin support

e.g. keeping on top of post, paperwork, and appointments

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Medication prompting

e.g. ensuring medication is taken correctly

Ventilation and oxygen support

e.g. BiPAP or CPAP Support

Specialist drug administration

Including Controlled Drug Administration, Covert Medication Administration, Glucose readings via finger pricks, Injections, Pessaries, Enemas, Suppositories

Stoma care

PEG care

Wound care

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Customer stories: Finding trusted live-in care

Finding the right care can feel overwhelming, but hearing how others made the decision can help. Explore real stories of families who found trusted support through live-in care.

Live-in care vs care home: Kenn and Nicole’s story

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How home care gave Sharon peace of mind

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How live-in care allowed Hayley's dad to remain at home

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