How to support the elderly now COVID-19 restrictions are lifted

As England moves out of lockdown, many people are looking forward to regaining a sense of normality. However, for the elderly, the world may become a more worrying place once COVID-19 restrictions are lifted.

Zenya Smith

Zenya Smith

Content Manager

After such a long period of uncertainty, it’s completely normal to feel some post lockdown anxiety. The important thing to remember is that while ‘Freedom Day’ is due to happen on 19 July, there’s no set timetable for getting back out into the world – and that it’s okay to take everything one step at a time.

We’ve shared our latest advice on how to support elderly loved ones once the COVID-19 restrictions are lifted, from minimising stress and anxiety, to seeing friends and family safely.


When does lockdown end?

While all legal lockdown restrictions ended in England on the 19th July, there are different rules elsewhere in the UK. In Scotland lockdown eased on the 19th July, however some restrictions, such as the use of face coverings, and remaining one meter apart from others will still be in place under a Level 0 Alert. In Wales, covid restrictions eased on the 17th July, and the country will move into Level 1 Alert. Mask wearing will still be required, and there will be limits on how many people you can meet indoors.

Stress and anxiety in the elderly

Older people are more vulnerable to COVID-19, and this extra risk has taken its toll on a lot of people’s mental wellbeing. According to research by Age UK, 31% of people over 70 feel very unsafe outside of their home due to the coronavirus pandemic.

With fewer people wearing face masks and practicing social distancing, it’s natural for older people to now have worries about returning to normality. However, staying home can be just as distressing, as it can leave them feeling lonely and cut off from the outside world.

Why are the elderly more vulnerable to infection?

There are a number of reasons, however one of the biggest is simply that, as we age, our immune systems become less effective – often having a weaker initial response to infections. When a new infection enters the body, an ‘immunity memory’ is created, so that if a similar infection occurs again, the immune system knows how to react to get rid of it. The ability to form these ‘memories’ also declines as we get older.

Your loved one may be feeling all kinds of emotions at the moment, however it’s not always easy to share these with friends or family.

If you notice your loved one is having trouble with sleep, is feeling restless or unable to sit still, is experiencing mood swings, or is asking more questions than usual, it may be a good time to have a gentle conversation with them about any worries they may have.


Supporting older people through the COVID-19 restrictions lifting


Take it slow

Anxiety is often worse when someone feels they don’t have control over their situation or surroundings. Let your loved one know that, although restrictions are easing, there’s no rush to get out and about.

When they do feel ready, give them as much choice as possible over where they’re going and how they’re getting there. Perhaps they’d prefer an early morning trip to the local corner shop over the supermarket, and to take a walk, rather than the bus.

In addition, some older people may feel less physically confident or able than they used to. Age UK reports that prolonged periods of shielding and being less active has left a lot of older people with muscle weakness, joint pain, and reduced mobility.

Try to keep trips out and about short at first, and stick to places that are quiet, where they won’t feel pressure to rush. It’s also a good idea to have a plan B in place for getting home, such as a taxi number to call, or someone who can pick them up if it becomes too uncomfortable or exhausting for them.

Help your loved one feel safe by giving them control over where they go, and allow for plenty of time to plan ahead.

Keep up their routines

Having a clear plan for the day ahead removes the potential for unexpected or challenging situations to pop up, and can help reduce feelings of anxiety.

Agreeing boundaries – such a fixed time of day for friends and family to visit – allows loved ones to feel connected, while giving them time to prepare things which may make them feel more comfortable. These could include having sanitiser to hand, opening windows, or making sure there are enough places to sit at a comfortable distance.

Routines can also help to boost confidence for those who struggle with memory. Age UK’s research found that one in five older people have found it harder to remember things since the start of lockdown.

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Wearing a mask

The legal requirement for wearing a mask while out and about has now changed in England. However, it may be reassuring for your loved one to know that plenty of shops, supermarkets and venues are still recommending that masks are worn. The government is also advising they should still be worn on public transport too.

For those in London, Transport for London has announced that face coverings and masks should be worn when travelling on tubes, buses, trains and trams, as well as taxis or private hire vehicles.

Elsewhere in the UK, Mayors in West Yorkshire have asked that face masks be worn at bus stations, and in the North East and Manchester they will continue to be required while traveling on Metrolink services.


Help them to look at the positives

Looking too far ahead can be worrying, as it’s difficult to predict how the coronavirus pandemic will impact daily living in the future. Taking pleasure in the present moment can ease fears and ‘what ifs’.

Try suggesting your loved one keeps a diary of enjoyable moments – noting these down can help them to see the positive consequences of lockdown coming to an end.


Be mindful of the media

Unfortunately, a lot of news sources are unreliable, or are simply created as ‘click bait’ to attract attention or intrigue. Older people may not realise that a COVID-19 story on Facebook may not be true, and be led astray by false information.

Be mindful of where your loved ones are getting their news from, and stay up to date with emerging stories which may worry them, such as COVID-19 case numbers and variants, so that you’re better placed to offer reassurance.


What are the COVID-19 ‘new variant’ symptoms?

The Delta variant is being talked about a lot. It can spread more easily than other variants, and is responsible for the majority of recent cases. However, it’s been far more prevalent in young people, who aren’t fully vaccinated yet.

Symptoms include:

  • Headache
  • Sinus congestion
  • Sore throat
  • Runny nose
  • Fever


Because the symptoms are similar to those of a common cold, it’s important to take a COVID-19 test if you experience any of the above.


Advice for visiting elderly parents and family


Plan ahead

Ask your loved one what’s giving them the most anxiety, as it will help you plan a visit that keeps their worries at bay. They may for example, prefer you to travel by taxi, rather than public transport, or choose to meet up outside.


Keep visitors to one or two

While your loved one may be eager to see the whole family, keeping their social ‘bubbles’ to a small number, especially while the number of cases in the UK is still relatively high is a good preventative measure. Limiting the number of people who visit at a time can reduce the risk of passing the virus on to others, and can prevent a loved one from feeling too overwhelmed.


If in doubt, take a test

Even though the majority of older people are fully vaccinated, they may still be concerned about catching and passing on the virus, especially if they have friends with ongoing health conditions that make them clinically vulnerable. Lateral Flow tests can be ordered for free online, or picked up in a pharmacy. However, if in doubt, it’s best to take a PCR test, which can provide quick peace of mind.


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